Sorry that is way too long.
He truthfully is just a great guy (or more i do believe). He’s handsome, funny, spontaneous, we possess the interests that are same interests. We now have a 12 yr old (their step son) and a 2 yr old. We have always mentioned being single mates and each year together this has believed like that.
Once or twice into the past I caught him on dating places, look for a bill or charge that is re-occurring the bank card for a website. We’d talk about any of it in which he will say he just did that because that’s where the “better” porn had been. Up to couple of years ago we have constantly had an extremely exciting and sex that is fun too. Maybe not being truly a lover that is porn but understanding he’s a guy plus it appears each of them look it. I accepted his solution, hesitantly. As time went on we never found any such thing dubious so that it all did actually disappear completely.
Well following the delivery of our two old with my hormones, a baby, a 10 year old, a 50 hour week job. The sex went from 2-3 times a week to once a week year. We knew it wasn’t the greatest for him but he never stated a term, acted unhappy, or ever tried to get more. And so I “assumed” all ended up being well. We also chatted to him as soon as about any of it in which he stated it had been no big deal. For this exact same timeframe i came across a receipt for an individual dating website. We confronted him and told me the BS that is same storybetter porn) said he never contacted anybody, was contacted or cared to. He stated it absolutely wasn’t an issue and he did not supposed to harm me personally and then he would stop.
Evidently he simply got more discreet is perhaps all.
We choose to sit outside and now have a few beverages together he RARELY goes to bed when I do, but knowing he is a night owl I was okay with that – we even talked about how that was affecting our sex life (we’re never in bed at the same times, unless sleeping) before I trail off to bed…